Well all I can say is just be yourself. If tattoos, long hair, and a goatee is what you are feeling then be you. Don't be someone your not because alot of people can see right threw you and your fakeness. I work around alot of nonmembers and nonbelievers and they know I'm Mormon but they don't care because I have always treated them the same since the day I first met them. Let people know where you stand and they will respect you more then if they saw you being wishy washy. If you are true you will build some everlasting friendships and trust with alot of people (family,friends,kids,wifes,etc.). So thats my thoughts for now. Like my brother would say " Be a Man". Just be yourself. If you are a yeser on 8 then stay Yes don't pull a John Kerry and cheer for gays in frisco then down them in the bible belt south. And if your a No person on 8 then stay no and respect people for their stance. If they have the balls to take one. That goes for everything you do in life stay true to you because if you like it or not people are watching and judging you all the time. So heres to you all stay true to you.